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    <entry>
      <title>Notepad</title>
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      <published>2010-09-03T03:27:06Z</published>
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        <p>Notepad is the most popular text editor based on the survey. It does not support any format or styles, which makes it very suitable in a DOS environment. It is one of the most favorites because it recognizes both left to right and right to left languages. It also does macro-recording and playback for repetitive keystrokes, a powerful regular expression search-and-replace, and support for many programming languages. Although you can edit file using notepad no matter what the format is, it does not read UNIX or MAC-style text files accurately.
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      <title>Windows 7 Interface.</title>
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      <published>2010-09-03T03:26:14Z</published>
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        <p>To edit the users in the later versions of windows: 
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1. Click on the start menu key in the bottom left area of the screen. 
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2. Click on Control Panel on the right side. 
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3. Click on User Accounts and Family Safety. 
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4. Click on User Accounts. 
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The screen that appears will allow you to perform all of the same functions as the old windows XP interface except that you will be able to do so in less clicks. For example, the options on the main screen are: 
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1. Create a password for your account/Edit your password. 
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2. Change your picture. 
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3. Change your account name. 
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4. Change your account type. 
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5. Manage another account. 
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6. Change User Account Control Settings.
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    <entry>
      <title>windows XP</title>
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      <published>2010-09-03T03:25:08Z</published>
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        <p>To edit user accounts in windows xp: 
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1. Press the start menu key in the bottom left area of the screen. 
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2. Click on Control Panel. 
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3. Find the “User Accounts” button and double click it. 
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Your first three options will be: change an account, create a new account and change the way users log on or off. Clicking change an account will allow you to manage existing accounts. From there, you will be able to: 
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1. Change my name. This allows you to change the name of the selected account. 
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2. Change my password. Click this to EDIT your current password. 
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3. Remove my password. This removes the password associated with the account. Anyone will be able to access this account! 
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4. Change my picture. Edit your account profile picture. This is the image you see at the top of the open start menu and the login screen. 
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5. Change my account type. This option allows you to change from standard user to admistrative user.
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    <entry>
      <title>Patients taxable &amp;amp; flag for review</title>
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      <published>2009-08-17T11:18:26Z</published>
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      <author><name>fred0</name></author>
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        <p>Having just recently installed and begun configuring Acubase and reviewing the manual, 2 things have popped up as features we&#8217;d like to see:
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First, some method of flagging a patient record for review or update. The purpose of which is to alert the front office staff that they should ask the patient to review update their information. Ideally, this could be done manually as well as by setting an automatic flag based on the age of the record and last review date.
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Second, since our practice deals with out of state customers via phone, it would be great to be able to flag a patient as tax exempt. Ideally, this would all be ode automatically based on based on the state setting in their patient record. That, of course, would require expanding the tax rate lists into a full tax table where one could specify a state for each tax rate.
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Thanks!
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    <entry>
      <title>What items are taxable under the pa sales tax&#63;</title>
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      <published>2010-08-30T05:28:34Z</published>
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        <p>What items are taxable under the pa sales tax?
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    <entry>
      <title>Husband looking at revealing pictures of women on the Internet</title>
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      <published>2010-08-27T19:57:04Z</published>
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        <p>Most men enjoy looking at beautiful women and get pleasure out of seeing them in magazines and on the Internet. However, once a man falls in love and gets married, he has more <a href="http://www.discounttiffanyjewelry.us">Tiffany jewelry</a>than himself to consider. My definition of true love is, &#8220;When someone else&#8217;s happiness and well-being is just as important as your own.&#8221; Hopefully, now that you have now told him how unhappy his behavior made you feel, he&#8217;ll respect that. I know he wouldn&#8217;t be very happy if you were viewing the same thing with men online. The truth is that if he continues this behavior, you will turn into an angry, cold, bitter and unresponsive woman.
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A mature and loving man knows that he has to sacrifice certain things for the sake of a marriage. When you become parents there are even more sacrifices for the sake of the children. You may want to &#8220;party&#8221; till 4:00 a.m. but, if you are a responsible and loving parent, you know that your child needs you to be alert the next day, so you don&#8217;t! If looking at naked women hurts your partner, then you simply control your impulses and don&#8217;t do it!
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I think taking the glamour shots or what they call &#8220;boudoir photography&#8221; is a great idea. It&#8217;s a wonderful experience. You&#8217;ll be shocked at how classy and sexy you&#8217;ll look. You can present it to your husband with a cute note that says, &#8220;For Your Eyes Only.&#8221; – Dr. Ellen
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LAST WEEK&#8217;S REACTION to the woman who felt that dating after divorce was like being on a battlefield.
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I had gone through the same thing from 1994-2000 and had wanted that instantaneous commitment with someone. I could not cope with being alone, even though it was I who initiated my divorce. I had gone into therapy however, and joined a small divorce group with other women, and it was there that I was given the same advice that Dr. Ellen gave you. I had to learn that men who were betrayed felt as bad or worse than I might; that most men will hook up with a woman and get married almost immediately after divorcing because they can&#8217;t bear to be alone (my ex got married 6 months after we were officially divorced), while others might be so traumatized that they never remarry. I had to learn how to forgive my ex and myself for my contributions to the dissolution of the marriage, and finally, I had to go through the grieving process that would take maybe 2-5 years to &#8220;process.&#8221; It was tough but I emerged whole.
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In early 2000 I realized that I should just have fun and date who I felt like, and not expect a commitment. I joined an Internet dating club and wrote a profile about myself that was honest and real, where I described myself as being a real person, who did not possess Cindy Crawford&#8217;s body; who did not hate men or my ex, and who wanted a real dynamic with someone. I enclosed a photo of myself (I am attractive but am not a model, if you will) and the results were amazing. Not only did I receive thank you notes from men (who though not interested in dating me per se or I them) who appreciated my candor, and commented that I was &#8220;refreshing&#8221; in their battlefield, but I had the opportunity to meet lots of men. A mere month after doing this, my future husband contacted me. We immediately connected and 6 months later we were married at our home. Once you free yourself of your fears, lots of doors to happiness, open. - Vicki
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There is the saying that you get in life what you create. So why are you creating a battlefield? Why not just relax, enjoy thoroughly the men you date, and create lasting friendships. I think you are fortunate to be in the situation you are in. My girlfriend was single for several years after her husband left her for a life behind bars. She is attractive and energetic. After she went through a grieving period, she began dating. She enjoyed her dates and <a href="http://www.discounttiffanyjewelry.us/return-to-tiffany-heart-tag-charm-bracelet-p-158.html">return to Tiffany heart tag charm bracelet</a>didn&#8217;t put any pressure on the men. Soon she was receiving so many marriage proposals; she didn&#8217;t know what to do! But the key seemed to be that the men she was dating could tell that she wasn&#8217;t in a rush. I don&#8217;t know why it is this way, but somehow men are never attracted to women who are even slightly &#8220;desperate.&#8221; Even if you are not, you can come across that way by cornering them too soon. Relax, enjoy, take it
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    <entry>
      <title>How to Discuss Issues</title>
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      <published>2010-08-27T19:25:22Z</published>
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        <p>My wife and I were cheerily making our way to a winter weekend getaway in upstate New York. Then things took an unexpected turn, literally. The car ahead skidded on an ice patch, crashed into us, and left us groaning, “What happened?” We made it to our destination, but for the rest of the weekend our neck muscles felt like they had been worked over by an angry Swedish wrestler.
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Like collisions, marital arguments happen, and often when least expected. But when crashes occur on the road of married life there&#8217;s a lot more at stake than sore muscles. Unresolved conflicts in a marriage can put out the fire of romance, squelch intimacy, and if prolonged, lead to the death of the relationship. What the Relationship Enhancement method does so effectively is provide you with a protocol - “rules of the road” - so you can reach your destination safely. These rules are simple and easy to learn. And when observed carefully, the guidelines virtually guarantee a safe and successful discussion of any issue, no matter how sensitive.
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In previous article we laid the groundwork. The Expressive skill and the Empathic Responding skill are at the core of all Relationship Enhancement discussions. The Discussion skill provides the framework in which you and your partner use these two basic skills to explore a specific issue in your relationship.
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The rules for the Discussion skill are simple:
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1. At each point in time, one and only one person is using the Expressive skill, speaking subjectively and including underlying positive feelings; and the other person is using the Empathic Responding skill, listening carefully and at appropriate points responding empathically to what the Expresser stated.
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2. Roles are periodically switched (using guidelines that will be explained later), so that the person who was the Expresser now becomes the Empathic Responder and vice versa.
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3. The Discussion phase continues until both persons believe they have expressed all of their most important concerns, feelings, and thoughts about an issue and they believe that the other person understands these fully.
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To further explain, here&#8217;s a typical marital discussion without using the Relationship Enhancement skills.
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Wife: When are you going to learn to pick up your stuff?! Do you think I&#8217;m your slave?
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Husband: Sorry, but you don&#8217;t have to get huffy about it. I usually am pretty good about that. You&#8217;re always jumping on me for the least little infraction of your pickiness and I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s reasonable -
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Wife: (Interrupting) Oh, really? Well, there are other things that you&#8217;re picky about and I try to go along with those -
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Husband: (interrupting) There you go turning things around again.
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I think you get the idea. What is going wrong in this discussion? You probably can see a number of things, and in a future newsletter we&#8217;ll analyze this exchange in detail. But for now, let&#8217;s illustrate the same issue being discussed using the Relationship Enhancement skills.
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Wife: Honey, there&#8217;s something that has been on my mind and I wonder if this would be a good time to talk about it. I think I&#8217;d feel better about discussing it if we used our Relationship Enhancement skills.
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Husband: Sure, I&#8217;m listening.
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Wife: I really appreciate how hard you have worked in our marriage to provide us <a href="http://www.easternjordan.com">jordan retro shoes</a> with a beautiful home. And the way you take an interest in keeping the yard neat and maintaining the outside of the home really makes me feel good. This home is so important to me because I view it as the place where our marriage is centered, and I love you so very much. I think that&#8217;s why I have a strong need to have the inside of the house clean and neat. When I see stuff lying around I get really upset. And I sometimes wonder if you really care about how I feel about this.
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Husband: You really value my contribution to providing this home and keeping up the exterior, but you are disappointed that I don&#8217;t show more of an interest in keeping the inside orderly. Our home is a very special place to you because it&#8217;s tied into our marriage and you get irritated when I leave stuff lying around, even questioning my sensitivity to your feelings about this.
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Wife: Yes, or I even wonder if you think I&#8217;m some kind of maid that picks up after you.
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Husband: Feel like I act pretty selfish and lazy sometimes.
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Wife: I&#8217;m wondering how you see this.
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Husband: I do take pride in keeping the house looking nice. And I appreciate how beautifully you have decorated it inside. I love inviting our friends over because you&#8217;ve made this a very comfortable home, and I see how hard you work to do this. When I was growing up, it was like that too, but with all my brothers and sister there was always stuff lying around. I guess to me that just shows someone is living in the house and is enjoying it. So I find it hard to see the need to have everything put away in its proper place all the time.
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Often when couples hear a Relationship Enhancement style discussion for the first time, their reaction is “OK, but giving all those empathic responses sure makes the discussion go slowly!” Exactly. The Discussion guidelines help you to slow down, to consider carefully what you say rather than speaking hastily, and to listen carefully rather than to react defensively.
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    <entry>
      <title>Change</title>
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      <published>2010-08-27T19:21:39Z</published>
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        <p>Let&#8217;s consider Self-Change first. As the person wanting to change, I need to think about what will help me remember to make the desired change. Some time ago I was in the habit of placing my clothes in the laundry hamper whichever way they happened to come off. My wife requested that I first unfold my clothes so that she would not have to do that later. I heartily agreed, but failed in my attempts to remember because of my long-established pattern. So I put a small post-it note above the laundry hamper with the word “unfold”. That worked. When I went to put my clothes in the hamper, I saw the note and this reminded me what I should do. After a few weeks, the note wasn&#8217;t needed anymore because now unfolding my clothes had become a new habit that had replaced the old one.
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This is an example of a “self-reminder”. For other kinds of changes, we may need our mate to remind us of the change we are trying to make. If so, we <a href="http://www.tiffanyoverstock.com/tiffany-necklaces-c-71.html">Tiffany necklace</a>need to clearly spell out how we would like that reminder delivered to us, so that we do not perceive it as nagging. Reminders can be verbal or non-verbal, and they can come before we are supposed to do something or after we were supposed to have done something. Enlisting the support of our mate in this way can be a powerful impetus toward altering deeply rooted behavior.
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Last time we began a discussion of the two Relationship Enhancement skills that will help you and your mate to make desired changes in your behavior. The Self-change skill provides a method you can use to change yourself. The complementary skill, Other-change, provides guidelines on how you can help your partner to make changes. Let&#8217;s see how these two skills work together.
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While ultimately I am the only one responsible for changing myself, feedback from others can help or hinder. Remember the question, “Is the glass half full or half empty?” It has been quipped that the answer depends on whether you&#8217;re pouring or drinking, and indeed perspective can make all the difference.
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Let&#8217;s say that your mate wants to do better at keeping the home tidy. During the past week you&#8217;ve noticed some improvement, but not as much as you hoped for. How will you respond? You have two choices - if you see a glass that&#8217;s half empty, you&#8217;ll gripe, “Hey, when are you going to deliver?” If you instead realize that change is an arduous, inch-by-inch struggle, sometimes with three steps ahead and two back, you&#8217;ll cheer your partner on and fully acknowledge whatever success he has achieved.
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The choice you make as to how you respond will either encourage your mate to try harder or increase the likelihood that he&#8217;ll throw in the towel.
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So how can you best help your partner? First, make sure you have a clear understanding of the change that your partner has agreed to make. Next, if your mate has asked for your help, find out exactly what kind of assistance he would like, and carry this out as requested. Finally, spontaneously express appreciation for his efforts and be patient when there are setbacks.
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Let&#8217;s take an example. Your mate <a href="http://www.tiffanyoverstock.com">discount Tiffany jewelry</a> has told you that she is insecure and longs for you to compliment her more in public when you&#8217;re with friends. You agree, but how can you make this change? After discussing various approaches, you decide that, at least at first, you need a signal when she is hoping you will say something, e.g. a tug on her earlobe. Also, you have asked her to kindly explain when you missed an opportunity and to pat you on the back when you were successful. Using the Self-change skill, you also decided to post a reminder note at your desk and to keep a journal of your successes and setbacks.
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Wow, that&#8217;s a lot of work! Absolutely. Lately my wife has been working on learning to play a difficult
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    <entry>
      <title>Error code 646 wont let me install updates&#63;</title>
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      <published>2010-08-27T01:19:19Z</published>
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        <p>Error code 646 wont let me install updates?
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i keep getting error code 646 and cant install updates how do i fix this
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    <entry>
      <title>Newest AcuBase Pro Released December 1, 2007!</title>
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      <published>2007-12-02T18:35:24Z</published>
      <updated>2007-12-02T18:38:16Z</updated>
      <author><name>Jsin</name></author>
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        <p>Our latest update to AcuBase Pro is out now!&nbsp; The latest version is 8.5.40. Existing user of AcuBase Pro can download and update at <a href="http://www.trigram.com/downloads_updates/item/acubase-pro-updates/">http://www.trigram.com/downloads_updates/item/acubase-pro-updates/</a>.&nbsp; A summary of new features and additions may be found at <a href="http://www.trigram.com/downloads/AcuBaseUpdates.pdf">http://www.trigram.com/downloads/AcuBaseUpdates.pdf</a>.
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